Friday, April 8, 2016



Mother Mary and Angel

“And the Angel said unto Mary, “He is not here: for he has risen”

This is our final week of New Testament. What a blessing it has been to study the gospels and review the birth and finally the Resurrection of the Savior. I was impressed that it was the women to go the extra mile to tend to the body of Jesus, and then find he had risen. Angels told them to run and spread the good news. How long would it have been to learn of this miracle if they hadn’t felt in their hearts to serve him further?
The song “As Sisters in Zion” (LDS hymns pg. 309), tells us that the “errand of angels is given to women”. The sisters in many ways are there for the gentle touches. So Mary and the other women felt to visit the tomb to add to the burial rituals. They were devout disciples of the Savior, and faithful in every way. If we endure to end, we will show we are faithful to the gospel.

A New Principle?

Faithful, a new basic principle of the gospel. I found this article enlightening on the subject. There is more on the site included below.
“For several generations, Latter-day Saint discourse has privileged four basic principles and ordinances of the gospel. In 2004, however, the historic introduction of a comprehensive missionary handbook featured five principles and ordinances in its lesson on the gospel of Jesus Christ. This was followed in 2010 with a revised handbook for Church leaders which, under the heading “The Gospel of Jesus Christ,” lists the same five principles: 
            1.   Faith in Jesus Christ
            2.   Repentance
            3.   Baptism of water
            4.   The gift of the Holy Ghost
            5.   Enduring to the end
This quintet of basic principles now appears to be systematically reflected in all curricular materials produced by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The fifth principle seems to have been introduced without any fanfare or even notice.
One of the earliest of these, apparently composed by Brigham Young’s brother Joseph in 1836, was published in a Boston compilation of American religious creeds and clearly acknowledged the Book of Mormon requirement that Christ’s followers endure to the end: “to ensure eternal life, a strict obedience to all the commandments of God, must be observed, to the end.”  Most influential were the writings of Parley P. Pratt. His 1840 Late Persecution of the Church included earlier material, but featured a new introduction enumerating and briefly explaining five principles of “Theology held by this Church.” The first four of these are preserved in the current fourth article of faith. In elaborating on the fourth principle, Pratt lists all the duties incumbent on a new Church member: “in short, to continue faithful unto the end, in all the duties which are enjoined by the Law of Christ.” (Noel B. Reynolds is a professor emeritus of political science at BYU. https://rsc.byu.edu/pt-pt/node/7582)

Let us too endure to the end.

In marriage, enduring to the end is not how we want our journey together to be. Yes, we want to endure getting an education, raising children, working, illness, and commitments to all places we are needed. But I have written how marriage should be, so even though we need to stick it out, we need to enjoy the time we have together. I also talked about being faithful. Let us be faithful to spouse, children, church, community, and country. Just do it!

My husband discovered a nest outside our window in the bushes he was trimming this week. There he saw four eggs and then the faithful couple of Scrub jays tending to them. We read that they will mate for life. If they can be true to each other, how much more can we do to be eternally together? 

Friday, March 25, 2016






We will all face death as the Savior, but showed us we shall rise again!

As Easter approaches, do we feel the joy that comes from a promise that we will live after death?
This week we have been reading the advent of Easter in the New Testament. The burden that Christ had knowing what is to happen, and facing that pain, even knowing that after he will live again. We too know that we will come to a time when we will die, but as Jesus, we will live again. But we must be prepared, for we never know when.

Is the World Out of Control?

Meanwhile, what of the world we are living in? We don’t know when we wake up what kind of horror will be seen in the day. In Matthew chapter 24, Jesus foretells of the great calamities that will precede His Second Coming. Are we standing together as husband and wife to be prepared for the great day of the Lord? Are we frightened, or want to give up as trials seem too hard?

Your Heavenly Father Wants You to Stay Strong!

I read a thought from Elder Holland. He gave four things God asks us to remember in troubling times. 

"First, our adversity and affliction shall be but a small moment. Our trials seem to be long-lasting-or everlasting-when we are in the midst of them, but they do come to an end...Often enough in our mortal struggle, the only response we can make is to hang on and hide in "the shadow of [God's] wings... until these calamities be overpast." Difficulties do pass, hard times end, the trouble we thought would never go away goes away. So there is hope, not simple stoicism, in enduring.

Second, if we endure our challenges well, God will exalt us on high and we will triumph over our foes, whether those foes be actual people seeking to do us harm or simply the vicissitudes of life that bring grief and trouble with them...

Third, we need to remember that we do have friends. Thank heaven for friends! The Prophet Joseph was reminded that his friends were still standing by him and that they would yet hail him again with "warm hearts and friendly hands."

Fourth, in our despair, there can always be a tendency to self-pity. We need to resist that at all cost, for it damages everything it touches...We have many, many blessings, and there are many, many people in the world who face far more circumstances than do we.

How Does Your Life Compare to Others?


Not that bad, huh? I think my friends and family have blessings beyond good. And when the going gets tough… we all have each other. So we learn this week that in the end, all will be well if we stand in holy places and together.  Rejoice in the Easter message!

Saturday, March 12, 2016

Many thanks to my friends who have asked that I continue my blog. Here we go!

I am taking a class of the New Testament, and as the teachings can be applicable to making our marriage better, I would like to post thoughts for you to ponder and apply. Many of us have been married many years, but we need to continue our quest to be the best we can. As Robert Browning said: “Grow old along with me! The best is yet to be…”

The New Testament Teaches Us How to Treat Each Other.

Matthew 18:21-22. Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Till seven times?
Jesus saith unto him. I say not unto thee, until seven times: but until seventy times seven.
In the Teachings of the Presidents, the Joseph Smith manual we find his thoughts on forgiveness. He said: "One of the most pleasing scenes that can occur on earth, when a sin has been committed by one person against another, is, to forgive that sin; and then according to the sublime and perfect pattern of the Savior, pray to our Father in Heaven to forgive [sinner] also. " Ever keep in exercise the principle of mercy, and be ready to forgive our brother on the first intimations of repentance, and asking forgiveness; and should we even forgive our brother, or even our enemy, before he repent or ask forgiveness, our Heavenly Father would be equally as merciful unto us"
I have learned that if we are angry with someone and don't forgive, that only hurts us. Sometimes they are not even aware of our anger. We suffer and the anger only eats at our emotional and mental health.

"Love Means Never Having to Say Your Sorry", not true!!!


Saying “I’m Sorry” quickly will stop the gulf that sometimes grows the longer you let the hurt fester. Jesus said we must forgive everyone, for he has said that he is the one who can judge others. We will be judged as we judge. Ouch! That could be painful for eternity. 

Random thought!

Anyone remember the clown toy that would balance on a rounded bottom? One side was bright orange and the other just plain white. When tapped, he bobbed around showing each side. I like to look only the bright side, the good things my husband does, and ignore the other side. Why be upset over unimportant things? Will it matter next year, or five years from now? Enjoy now!